Episode #440: 5 Reasons to Cancel Me Before the Book Comes Out

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With You’re Not in Trouble getting ready to make its way into the world, I am feeling the vulnerability that comes with putting so much of myself into a book. So instead of waiting for people to “find her out,” I’m putting it all on the table.

I share five things you may not know about me—from unconventional choices I’ve made to support my ADHD, to my Christian faith and complicated feelings about homeschooling, to the questions I have about the connection between ADHD and trauma.

And then there’s the one I’ve never shared publicly before: I wrote a book about healthy relationships…and haven’t spoken to my parents in more than three years.

This is a vulnerable conversation about ADHD, trauma, faith, family, estrangement, relationships, and what it means to stop hiding the parts of yourself you’re afraid others might judge.

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